These are our favorite places to find kids penpal ads. But then we go looking for interesting penpal ads, we don't just place one ad then sit back and wait. One ad on a busy site may be all you need. Just remember that if you can't write an intersting ad, people will assume you can't write an interesting letter either.
All sites below show the date the ad was placed.
For some reason, search engines seem to do a poor job of locating good kids penpal sites. You are better off using web directories instead of search engines like Google. What is a web directory? Like
DMOZ or Google Directory or Yahoo Directory or Best of the Web.
- Penpals of the World
click here
Large and active. At the bottom of the first page is "all countries". You have to send your first e-mail through the site, but you don't need to register. Some of the ads only offer on-site messages (the site emails notification that there is a message waiting), not e-mail (mostly very young kids), and you need to register and create an ad for that. Lots of young kids there, penpals without emails, good source for families. Too many ads don't have useful comments. It's still our favorite, by a wide margin.
- E-Pal World
click here
Plenty of ads, but you need to create an ad before you are allowed to send your first e-mail.
- InterPals
click here
This used to be a big penpal site. They switched to being a Facebook look-alike (a bad thing, I think) where you have to place an ad to view profiles or send messages, have to publish your photo to attract any interest, and then you have to send these tiny little notes to people until you find someone who actually knows what a real penpal is. If you do want to try the whole "social networking" thing, this is a good place to do it. I have met several great people on InterPals. It's just not a pure penpal-ad website. Moderators are stupid and abusive. 13+
- Penpal Gate
click here Once a member, log in here.
A new site that is similar to Interpals. More international, it is the work of two French students over the last two years. 26,000 members. It has a chat language translator. Not real professional yet, but definitely worthwhile. As I learn more about them, I will post it
here. 13+
- E-mail Kids Pen Pals Club
click here
Several penpals ads, easy to search, addresses shown, no restrictions. Not good with Firefox.
- Its-MyWorld
click here
Ages 12-17 only, you must place an ad before viewing email addresses, 24-hour delay.Not very active.
- Room 108 Pen Pals
North America
Overseas
Ads from parents for very young kids.